Appreciate yourself first





    Today's article will focus on the importance of appreciating yourself before seeking validation from others. At times, we may face situations where we are treated poorly by others, whether it's at work, meetings, or even at home. This can cause us to doubt ourselves and our abilities, leading us to wonder what we did wrong or what mistakes we've made. Sometimes, we may try to please others and feel guilty when we don't achieve the desired outcome, all because we don't value ourselves enough.

    It's important to recognize that this could be a result of bad leadership from managers who are quick to point fingers and refuse to accept criticism. This kind of behavior is unacceptable and should not be tolerated. It's important to remember that our hard work and contributions are what make these managers successful, and they deserve to be appreciated and valued rather than bullied or offended.

    We tend to undervalue ourselves when we are around successful or wealthy individuals, assuming that we are the ones who are always making mistakes and not the managers. This could be due to lack of ambition or confidence in our abilities. In reality, successful individuals are often humble and may have even relied on our expertise to reach their level of success. We need to believe in ourselves and our abilities and not be afraid to try new things or take risks.

    It's important to distinguish between bad and good leaders. A good leader is like a spiritual father who believes in their team and provides opportunities for growth and development, while a bad leader sees their ego as an enemy and will do whatever it takes to keep their team under control.

    In conclusion, we should not wait for others to appreciate us if we don't appreciate ourselves and recognize the value of our skills, ideas, and ambitions. We need to believe in ourselves and remember that we have the potential to achieve success. When we start something new, it's normal to feel apprehensive, but we should not allow others to discourage us. We should embrace positive thinking and optimism and always remember that we can overcome any obstacle. Best of luck to you on your journey.


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